Nothing Can Stop You

June 1, 2008


There is absolutely nothing that can stop you if you don’t want it to. The only thing that can stop you is your decision to stop.

If they laugh at you…don’t stop
If they tell you it won’t work…don’t stop
If you’re afraid it won’t work…don’t stop
If they tell you you’re not smart enough…don’t stop
If you’re afraid you’re not smart enough…don’t stop

Go Get It…It’s Yours
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Jack Wallis
tgwallis@thewallisgroup.com


What Are You Afraid Of?

May 29, 2008


It’s a question I have asked myself so many times until I’m tired of hearing it. We prevent ourselves from doing so many things because we are afraid. Afraid of what people will say, afraid that we will fail, afraid that we won’t like the result, whatever. The bottom line is that YOU DON’T KNOW UNTIL YOU DO IT.

Most people, me included, spend so much time worrying about “what if.” My wife came up with a saying recently that I think is very appropriate: “Don’t focus on ‘what if’, only on ‘what is’”. What that means is, if you don’t know the answer, you don’t have enough information to be afraid. So many people are certain that they will fail. No matter what it is that you want to do, you don’t know until you try. And most of the time, it will cost you nothing to try. And you just might succeed.

As a wise person once told me, you have absolutely no right to have an opinion on any subject until you have actually lived it yourself. Don’t ask people who haven’t done it. In fact, don’t ask anybody. Most people can only give you their opinion through their own filter of experience, which may be completely different than yours. How do you know? You have to live it yourself!

YES, you can learn from other’s experiences, as long as they don’t scare you out of having your own. Stop worrying about failure; worry about what you’re missing when you try too few times.

And what if you fail? Sure, your pride might get hurt a little, you may even be out some money. But in the long run, even of you do fail, you will have learned a valuable lesson which you will know not to repeat.

Think: It won’t kill you (if it would, you probably shouldn’t be doing it in the first place). Now go out there, stop worrying and START LIVING!

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T.G. Wallis is a speaker and trainer specializing in time management, productivity and personal development. He is founder and CEO of The Wallis Group, a productivity firm located in California. Contact him at tgwallis@thewallisgroup.com.


Quitting is not an option now

May 27, 2008

Found this interesting link on the “Motivate Me” blog site. How many times have you quit too soon?


Alan Weiss, doing what he does.

April 29, 2008

“It costs virtually nothing to act successful. But you have to give yourself permission.”

See today’s profound post here


Why Success Is a Science (from ETR)

March 26, 2008

Science
By James Arthur Ray

In his best-selling book Automatic Wealth, Michael Masterson devoted an entire chapter to the importance of developing wealthy habits. One of the things he said: “There is no one way to become rich. But there are a number of habits that some people develop that give them an almost supernatural ability to earn money and build wealth.” He then went on to discuss eight things that successful wealth builders do - eight habits that they have in common.

You’ve probably observed that people who are highly successful at any skill - not only wealth building - achieve their results by doing “certain things in a certain way.” Add to this the scientific fact that “like causes produce like effects” - and one thing becomes clear: If you and I consistently employ the same thought processes and actions as these highly successful individuals, we will produce similar results.

This is why success is an absolute science. If you apply the principles (thoughts and actions) of peak performers, you will accelerate your results far beyond your current level of achievement. Put it to the test.

In his book Psychocybernetics, Dr. Maxwell Maltz talks about our daily actions being a direct result of our habits. Since your actions are the cause of your results, it is fair to assume that your habits are what ultimately create the results you obtain. Habits are the things you and I do naturally and automatically, without thinking. Most of these habits were formed at a very early age and are now collected in your unconscious mind. According to Maltz, if you want to change your results, you must begin to form new habits.

Your current thinking regarding your abilities, your product, and your industry is habitual. It is buried in your unconscious mind, and it drives your behavior on a daily basis. Many times, this mindset is limiting, because it has as its foundation things said by a parent, teacher, coach, etc. that were intended to protect us from disappointment … but are actually disempowering. Things like: “Be realistic,” “Don’t expect too much,” and “Life is hard.”

To reverse this negative mindset and build the habits of a top performer, start by taking these four first steps:

1. Set a clear and measurable goal.

Make it a goal that you are excited about accomplishing. The human spirit will not invest itself in mediocrity - so if you want to succeed in overcoming limiting habits, your goal must create passion in you!

When you set your goal, keep two other important things in mind: It must be specific … and it must be measurable. Instead of “I want to make more money,” write, “I am earning a minimum of $70,000 per year.” This way, you will know exactly when you have accomplished the goal.

2. Write your goal in the present tense.

Notice that in the above example, the goal is in the present tense: “I am earning a minimum of $70,000 per year.” There’s a reason for doing this. It will cause you to fully associate with the achievement of your goal. Your unconscious mind is totally deductive, and, therefore it accepts anything that your conscious mind gives it without question. Consequently, correct phrasing is imperative. Instead of “I want to earn $70,000 per year,” write your goal as if you have already achieved it.

3. Write your goal every single day, carry it with you everywhere you go, and read it as often as possible.

Remember, you are developing habits of the highly successful - ways of thinking and acting that are new to you. So don’t think that this step is redundant. Realize that it has taken years to develop your current limiting mindset - and it will take concentrated effort to replace it.

4. Take action and make daily decisions with your goal in mind.

For example, you might ask yourself the question: “What decision would I make right now or what action would I take right now as a $70,000 income earner?” Answer the question - and act! If you act based upon your current status, you will continue to create your current results.

Any time you experience frustration with these action steps, realize that it is caused by your old mental “programming” trying to push you back into old behaviors. Don’t give in! The mark of a master achiever is a person who has the ability to give himself a command - and follow it.

[Ed. Note: James Arthur Ray, a leading expert on the psychology of success, has devoted his life to helping ordinary people lead extraordinary lives. Recently, James put together an enormous package titled "Focusing on the Science of Success." If you are ready to transform your life, here's how you can try out this program for 30 days.

This article appears courtesy of Early To Rise, the Internet’s most popular health, wealth, and success e-zine. For a complimentary subscription, visit http://www.earlytorise.com.


One More Step

March 18, 2008

Thought I would share a song I just wrote today about persistence:

One More Step

it’s a crazy world, there’s no doubt
where you become what you think about
seems like sometimes this life’s so rough
i just feel like giving up

that’s when i take
one more step
got no time to stop and
catch my breath
whenever i feel like there’s
nothing left
that’s when i get up and take
one more step

one day i met the luckiest man
asked him what’s your secret do you have a plan
he said, i don’t know but on this i can bet
the harder i work the luckier i get

and i always take
one more step
got no time to stop and
catch my breath
whenever i feel like there’s
nothing left
that’s when i get up and take
one more step

you gotta be in the right place at the right time
so be in a lot of places

and don’t forget to take
one more step
got no time to stop and
catch my breath
whenever i feel like there’s
nothing left
that’s when i get up and take
one more step
(c) 2008 Tig Wallis


CAN YOU SEE YOURSELF WINNING?

February 25, 2008

winning1.jpgis the first question I have to ask you. If you’re wondering why things aren’t not working out, why everything you try goes wrong, The very first thing you have to be able to do is see yourself winning. To view, as Matt Furey puts it, the “movie in your mind” See it, feel it, like it’s real. See yourself winning Give it a try.


How’s Your PMA? - By Tig Wallis

December 21, 2006

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One of the many challenges we face when working is maintaining our PMA-Positive Mental Attitude. This one factor an make or break our day, and often does. How many times have you got up on a cold cloudy morning and just decided, “I’m not going to have a good day?” Well, they say your words can make it happen, and they are right!

Harry Paul, one of the authors of the now-famous “FISH” series, speaks often of the need to “choose our attitude.” This process works best first thing in the morning, that’s when you decide what kind of day you’re going to have. Another critical point is when you first walk into your workplace for the day. Do you look around you and heave a big sigh at all the work you have to do, or do you jump in with both feet with anticipation? OK, most people hopefully fall somewhere in between; otherwise, you’re going to drive us all crazy. The idea is, if you are approaching your work with the attitude that it’s “just another day at work,” it shows. Pretty soon everyone around you is catching your attitude, and you’ve got a pretty down workplace.

Contrast this with someone who comes into work full of energy and smiles, says, “Good Morning” to everyone they pass, and seems genuinely glad to be there. Isn’t that someone you would like to work with? Most people would. And, trust me, it shows in the office. It shows on the phone, and it shows to your clients.

A trick that helps you to get the PMA is simply to pretend. It’s true, this really really works. Pretend you’re enthusiastic. At first it feels pretty silly, but what you are doing is tricking your brain into believing you’re enthusiastic. Pretty soon you’re believing it, and it gets easier and easier.

Now, no one would expect you to be feeling and acting wonderful every day. Just realize that, most of the time it is a choice, and you alone are responsible for that choice. “Choose Your Attitude,” get your PMA going and make your workplace a better place to work!

Tig Wallis works with businesses who want to improve relationships with their customers and employees. Contact him at The Wallis Group

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Fear of the Huge Immovable Thing

August 4, 2006

“The reason people remain shy is they have built it up into a huge, immovable thing to overcome, and they decide it is too big a challenge to even think about it.”

So says Ilise Benun, author of Stop Pushing Me Around: A Workplace Guide for the Timid, Shy, and Less Assertive..

It’s fascinating how something like shyness can snowball into total fear and withdrawing so very quickly. This got me thinking, too:

“This can actually make people stay at a job they dislike, rather than face the prospect of interviewing for a much better position somewhere else.”

Makes me wonder how many people out there perfoming lousy customer service are just shy people afraid to quit the job they hate?


Two Things

July 27, 2006

…from Robert Ringer:

“If you always do what you’ve always done,
You’ll always be what you’ve always been.”

and

“Going the extra mile is NOT a jogging term.”

-tig